Let’s distinguish two things. It is not, in my opinion, transphobic to not wish to date someone for any personal reason. It might be something as simple, for a male, as wanting natural children and seeing no point in dating someone who cant bear a child. I wouldn’t hold it against them. Refusing to acknowledge…… Continue reading On Cis Dating and the Golden Rule
Month: July 2018
Bio Sex and Reality
Drives me really nuts. There are all these people who ask these questions that include the terms biological female or male as if it were a real thing. I thought I’d get it off my mind along with some information about genes and get to sleep. As an added plus I can cut and paste…… Continue reading Bio Sex and Reality
The Earliest memories of a trans kid
I have dated my earliest memories for the longest time to age six. But I was thinking about it the other day and I realized I had these earlier memories. I was three or so and with my mom shopping in downtown Ossining, NY. We were at Hilliker’s, a small department store on Main St.…… Continue reading The Earliest memories of a trans kid
Vulnerability of a pronoun
(Modified from a Quora answer) I don’t get offended when people accidentally screw up pronouns with me. I even had that discussion today with my eye doctor who was apologizing for my last office visit and I told him it really isn’t a big deal. I’ve been his patient for 20 years and he still…… Continue reading Vulnerability of a pronoun
My Gifted Life 