Christmas is over

and I received a very non present via Quora. I like to think I have acquired somewhat of a tough skin but this one transphobe’s posting cut me straight to the heart. It left me in tears and unsure of myself despite all I’ve read about transgender people and my own experiences. Those have often…… Continue reading Christmas is over

Yesteryear’s Christmas

We were driving along the West side highway, close to the end of our journey to grandmother’s house. To be a little more specific an upper west side four bedroom apartment overlooking the East side. We were traveling, as usual, a few days before Christmas which kept the traffic pain to a minimum. As we…… Continue reading Yesteryear’s Christmas

Transitions

You hear this term a lot from people who are making a change in their presentation to the world. I think there’s a tendency for the unfamiliar to think of transition as just one goal and just one endpoint. The truth is that people transition to find a comfortable existence. There are several terms that…… Continue reading Transitions