Delusional Ignorant Misconceptions

I used to get bent out of shape when reading some inane commentary from people who view trans people as deluded. Their attitude only shows that the person has absolutely no conception of where a trans person’s feelings and self image come from. This becomes toxic from all the things people believe they understand about…… Continue reading Delusional Ignorant Misconceptions

Friends

I have a good number of dear friends. I feel very lucky. Some of them I’ve known for 40 years and some are newer. Although I’m separated as she claims that she didn’t marry a woman, which I understand. She’s a lovely person and i believe i will always love her. My dad was enamored…… Continue reading Friends

Cross Dressing

First it is important to recognize my own issues. I’m not terribly comfortable with crossdressers. I don’t discriminate against them. I’m polite, even cordial. But it’s important t6 recognize my inherent prejudice. I’ll also say that I’m very much not alone in this for transwomen. However, I do try to be fair and accurate in…… Continue reading Cross Dressing

Why I Think our Current Treatment for Trans kids is Misguided

Until very recently, only a tiny minority of people identified as trans. People who said they were trans, if they got care. would generally have gender dysphoria. On top of this was a huge social stigma and social and peer pressure that actively kept many people from admitting to the problem. Understand that for those…… Continue reading Why I Think our Current Treatment for Trans kids is Misguided