On being happy

I would have to say that this is really not a trans subject. This is a paean to the blessings of a good life, and the joy of choosing attainable goals. I only describe my vision of a happy life. Yours may be different. Mine won’t look like this in ten years or maybe it…… Continue reading On being happy

Bras

Oh, this is going to just be my terribly misinformed misinformation on the subject. Yet maybe it will provide a laugh or two (or three or more). I could get something right by accident. As usual I’m just trying to help the just getting started crowd. First of all my new girls, bras are not…… Continue reading Bras

Makeup – Mascara

Where did mascara come from? According to Wikipedia’s article it goes back to using kohl in ancient Egypt 4000 years ago and that probably means it was being done well before that. Modern mascara is a tube with a pigment in some carrier and a wand that is put into the tube to pick up…… Continue reading Makeup – Mascara

Makeup – Lippy

That was one of those slang words I learned early that lipstick can be lippy. But there are a million things we can put on our lips from pale to black and wild colors too, blues and purples and greens. Lipsticks, stains, glosses, crayons all sorts of things. You could go mad. I’m just going…… Continue reading Makeup – Lippy

Bags

I debated about this. Do I ruin the mystery and confess what I really carry around? Do I explain how this has evolved? Many questions, not so many answers. There are a lot of kinds of bags, little ones that can  carry a credit card, a $20 and a lipstick, and huge ones that can…… Continue reading Bags

Help me grow…

As far as I’ve been able to figure out, which actually is pretty difficult to do, this blog is reaching between 100 and 150 people between wordpress, facebook, linked in and twitter. I’ve been letting it grow “organically”, back following other bloggers, handing out business cards as I run into people I think might be…… Continue reading Help me grow…

How to be a Girl for the Trans woman

A short list of things to do or not do. Complete? Not even close. Talk like a girl Pitch is less important than intonation, cadence and word choice. Some women have lowish voices, but women still speak like women. Female speech  varies more in pitch than male speech. Women are much more descriptive: “It’s a…… Continue reading How to be a Girl for the Trans woman

Makeup – are you blushing yet?

We’ve laid our foundation, or perhaps we’ve decided we don’t need to because we have flawless skin. We’ve learned that those bad little spots can be spot treated like laundry so the foundation can just to it’s work of evening things out. We have the blank canvas, what do we do now? There are a…… Continue reading Makeup – are you blushing yet?

What does it mean to be a family?

If you listen to some people a family is a dad and a mom and 2.1 children. I feel back for  poor little .1, never getting invited to play, not even big enough to be thrown out of a bathroom because there’s only like an arm there, but I digress. It’s an Ozzie and Harriet…… Continue reading What does it mean to be a family?

Makeup – Why do we wear it

What, this never crossed your mind? Putting on makeup and removing it, even if you do a minimal job is going to take up about fifteen minutes. Five is about the minimum in the morning and five for cleaning up, but you take a few more getting things set up and sitting down and checking…… Continue reading Makeup – Why do we wear it