You’ll never believe what my girlfriend told me at the grocery store

Now I’m just writing one blog entry for this, but most likely I’ll write others. Some of the non-women out there have some truly funny ideas how women’s brains work. Let me start here. If you haven’t figured it out by now, when your girlfriend or wife says it’s not a problem or just forget…… Continue reading You’ll never believe what my girlfriend told me at the grocery store

And now for something completely different

When I started this blog, I really had no idea I would still doing ten year later. I’m finding myself needing to copyright the contennts of the blog. Ironically that requires update so you can have plug-ins two changes, Over the next week there will be minor changes, most likely including a buff up to…… Continue reading And now for something completely different

Crying at the movies

If there’s one thing people assume when it comes to women is that we are all going to cry where a man will stare stoically and unblinking at the approaching asteroid about to flatten the planet. Men don’t want to be women because then they’ll be weak. We don’t want women for leaders (US only,…… Continue reading Crying at the movies

Delusional Ignorant Misconceptions

I used to get bent out of shape when reading some inane commentary from people who view trans people as deluded. Their attitude only shows that the person has absolutely no conception of where a trans person’s feelings and self image come from. This becomes toxic from all the things people believe they understand about…… Continue reading Delusional Ignorant Misconceptions

Friends

I have a good number of dear friends. I feel very lucky. Some of them I’ve known for 40 years and some are newer. Although I’m separated as she claims that she didn’t marry a woman, which I understand. She’s a lovely person and i believe i will always love her. My dad was enamored…… Continue reading Friends

Cross Dressing

First it is important to recognize my own issues. I’m not terribly comfortable with crossdressers. I don’t discriminate against them. I’m polite, even cordial. But it’s important t6 recognize my inherent prejudice. I’ll also say that I’m very much not alone in this for transwomen. However, I do try to be fair and accurate in…… Continue reading Cross Dressing

Why I Think our Current Treatment for Trans kids is Misguided

Until very recently, only a tiny minority of people identified as trans. People who said they were trans, if they got care. would generally have gender dysphoria. On top of this was a huge social stigma and social and peer pressure that actively kept many people from admitting to the problem. Understand that for those…… Continue reading Why I Think our Current Treatment for Trans kids is Misguided

Learning to be a woman

For most of my life I was a man. After I came out people would say they didn’t have any idea that my actions, behaviors, and communications hadn’t come from a genuine place. There was a reason for this. I learned early on to hide the unusual thoughts I lived with. . I was raised…… Continue reading Learning to be a woman

Journey Through Near Death Experiences: Scientific Insights

Just to be clear, while I find this all to be conceivable, I’m not going to put the whole of it to the test. I’ll die when it’s my time to go, and if any of this stuff is true then, well, it would probably be a bonus. Some months ago I ran across a…… Continue reading Journey Through Near Death Experiences: Scientific Insights

Pain

What can I teach about pain. I’m not sure. Certainly I am not suffering more then many others. Maybe stoicism? But maybe not even that. It’s been three years now since I’ve been largely pain free. I’ve come to understand that age may not bring wisdom, but it surely, sooner or later leads to pain.…… Continue reading Pain