Closely related to depression. I’ve had a not so fun few days with a great deal of anxiety. I have a theory that it’s due to my not keeping a good schedule on my meds. We’ll see. Generally, in the greater time scale I’m doing pretty well. My problems are ordinary and don’t depress me,…… Continue reading Anxiety
Tag: sex
The gender police beyond the binary
Visions appear in my minds eye of middle aged librarians peddling furiously to stop tenth grade student Toby Carmichael from calling the sea the neutral it. Men in crisp white shirts ask to see your papers making sure everything is labeled and in order. Suddenly you are stopped at the corner of tenth and main…… Continue reading The gender police beyond the binary
The lie of biological and chromosomal sex
Biology is complex and resistant to neat little boxes with labels. In the debate, i.e. one side spouting unsupportable accusations and the other talking about the medical and biological realities of being trans, the terms biological sex and chromosomal sex are bandied about. Let’s not even start with birth certificates and the issues there. Biological…… Continue reading The lie of biological and chromosomal sex
Misogyny
According to the gospel of monsieur Charles le brun, happiness is a nickle, ice cream and singing a song among other things. I’ve always love those comics and the music for the Happiness song from “You’re a good man Charlie Brown” was always a sweet tune to me. Who among us would not want to…… Continue reading Misogyny
Orgasm (SRS)
One of the big questions every one of us has is whether we’re going to be able to orgasm after SRS. It’s a valid question for several reasons, but the principal reason is that your whole area down below is getting entirely rearranged. Most surgeons will tell you, or say on their website, that you…… Continue reading Orgasm (SRS)
SRS advice
This is going to cover what might be uncomfortable for some. Stop reading if you don’t want to hear about anatomy. If you read about SRS, what you hear is that the neovagina is dry or at least non-lubricating, i.e. it doesn’t get wet. It’s hard to find good information about how long it’s going…… Continue reading SRS advice
Female Sexuality
One can make the argument that I can’t know this. However, not only is that mostly likely to be part of an argument that says I’m really a dude in women’s clothing, but continues about the delusional state of trans people. I’m not writing for them, they can go off in their echo chamber and talk…… Continue reading Female Sexuality
My Gifted Life 