I am blessed in many ways. I sit here, warm, fed, and with people in my life that care about me, love me and who would come and help me if I needed it. The last at least in part because I wouldn’t ask for any trivial reason. I am blessed in my transition. Being…… Continue reading Sour Apple Days
Tag: work
Transitioning at Work
This is a tough subject. I don’t wish to recount anybody’s exact story, nor give an example with a specific company as a target. All these things tend to be continuously in motion. In a big company, or even in a modest size company your experience is likely to mostly depend on the people you…… Continue reading Transitioning at Work
En retraite
it sounds better in French, doesn’t it? Retired. In French you might think I was taking a retreat, but it means the same. I found myself at the start of last Summer feeling more and more tired and in particular I’d find myself at work blocked several times a day. But I’d get up and…… Continue reading En retraite
Facades
We all have one. We use it daily, hiding behind a pleasant smile or a dull mask. A rictus that never changes like Kelly Ann Conway’s, or perhaps a sad clown face. some wear their hearts on their sleeves and we all do time to time. Not all joys and woes are truly containable within…… Continue reading Facades
Pain, Struggles and Tears
I ran into a friend, a lovely person with one of the greatest jobs in the world. Not an easy one. She commented how open I was here on my blog and I have been with information on transition and my struggles with identity and sexuality. I don’t think I’ve kept a whole lot back.…… Continue reading Pain, Struggles and Tears
Memories 2015 from October to December
Going through from March of 2014 when I went full time to March of 2015 was a hiatus. Things were good at home, but it was a kind of truce. We both knew that once I was eligible for surgery things could change radically. There wasn’t much question in my mind that I wanted the…… Continue reading Memories 2015 from October to December
The Realities of a Woman’s Life at Work
Today is my third birthday as a full time woman, and for the last six months or so I would call myself post transition. Over that period of time thoughts about being trans or wanting to talk about trans issues have dwindled down to little or nothing. Feelings of being different aren’t much anymore. It…… Continue reading The Realities of a Woman’s Life at Work
Memories from 2013 – Q2 & Q3
The following is a few weeks later. Our friend S took me out for some pampering. I’m leaving out the piper’s price, such is life, as protection to guilty and innocent alike. Dear diary, most of today was lovely. My friend S and I went and were made over (you can not quite see it…… Continue reading Memories from 2013 – Q2 & Q3
Happy New Year 2017
with only a couple of changes from the post to the NuttyKats forum, an excellent place to be a transsexual. Added comments in parenthesis in italic It has been a great journey through thick and thin. (five years in April 2017) There’s this large group that helped me move through the swamp and miasma that hid…… Continue reading Happy New Year 2017
My Gifted Life 